Tag: hegemony

The Problem With Unlearning

society, thinkpiece July 9, 2020

 If you’ve read my last two posts, then you probably recognize that I wholeheartedly welcome this revolution, wherein oppressed people are finally able to exercise their basic human rights. And because of that, I recognize the things within myself that need to change to help facilitate that. With chants of “Black Lives Matter,” and “Abolish the Police,” fading into background noise, the real work begins. So, what does that look like?

A hell of a lot of unlearning.

It’s something that started some time ago for me, beginning with recognizing how I,  a fashion lover, was directly responsible for the suffering of garment factory workers in faraway lands, and the pollution of the rivers and streams they rely on, by avidly buying fast fashion. So, I stopped. And yet, in my unlearning, I’m recognizing that I’m still royally fucking up.

I’m still unlearning capitalist behaviors, and relinquishing many of the fairytales that I once hoped to bring to life, because in the grand scheme of things, they are (and always were) meaningless accolades and titles. You know, the sandcastle-in-the-sky type of daydreams, ones in which I considered what Instagram post I’d make to announce my appearance on Forbes’ 30 Under 30 list, or what The Queen and I might talk about when I marry Prince Harry (…I let that one ago around the Chelsy Davy days), or the five cities that I’d want to have homes in.

I’ve realized that if I’m truly to be as pro-Black as I claim to be, I have to take responsibility for what I’m contributing to this ecosystem, wherein we’re all simultaneously senders and receivers.

Screaming from the rooftops about wanting equity, inclusivity, and representation isn’t enough, because, as I’ve learned from being honest with my damn self, we’re constantly acting in ways that uphold hegemonic structures–the same ones that we claim to want to destroy. And for me, that means coming to terms with the fact that, as much as I want Breonna Taylor’s killers to die in prison, I want to abolish the prison industrial complex, rendering that impossible; I’m coming to terms with the fact that there is still anti-Blackness within me that I need to deprogram;  I’m coming to terms with the fact that capitalism has given me an inflated sense of self, which has caused me to cause harm to others. And so, I’m actively trying to expedite the unlearning that I have to do.

While recognizing that I’ve actively been harmful to others–even if it has been unintentional.

I’ve learned that you can genuinely try to be an ally, as I do to the LGBTQ+ community, and still misgender non-binary people unintentionally–as I have on two separate occasions between this year, and last. And I’ve learned that it’s not enough to own and apologize for the unintentional harm that I could’ve caused, but that I must also question my own brainwashing, from a perspective of “how can I unlearn my phobias towards non-cis-hetero people?” Going far beyond merely asking, “do I have these phobias?”

A draining amount of self-discernment led me to become absolutely disgusted with my lack of allyship to Indigenous people. It took me 25 years to ask my family if we could stop celebrating the Fourth of July and Thanksgiving, yet it only took 12 for me to tell them I was going vegetarian. Could this late-blooming of my self-awareness have caused immense harm? I’m sure it has, but only God knows how much. All of this has taught me one thing: ultimately, the only real problem with unlearning is that it forces us to keep unlearning, decolonizing, reframing, and letting go of inherently harmful traditions and lifestyles; but even then, we aren’t doing the work until we militantly integrate new traditions and lifestyles that counter the collective harm that we’ve done.

So, where the hell can we start? Maria Vicente has 99 ideas:

1)   Get familiar with the 5 R’s: Refuse, Reduce, Repair, Reuse, Recycle

2)      Be critical towards globalisation and its effects on global diversity. Keep yourself informed.

3)      Protect the minorities! And empower those who are stigmatised.

4)      Get yourself a reachable challenge (e.g. no plastic for a month, no meat for a week).

5)       Remember that there are unlimited amount of ways to resist capitalism. It is important to take small steps and appreciate them!

6)      Choose a more responsible bank – for example one that doesn’t support wars.

7)      Preserve and embrace ethnic diversity.

8)      Don’t throw away stuff: find a new life for it.

9)      Save water and energy.

10)   Join a collective working together to improve the world.

11)   Make your own hygiene products.

12)   Install and use solar panels in your house.

13)   Make your own household cleaning materials.

14)   Wash clothes only when it is needed. Air clothes that you have only used once.

15)   Wash clothes on a low temperature.

16)   Don’t produce garbage (instead: compost, recycle, donate).

17)   Grow your own food.

18)   Buy organic food (not GMO) and avoid food from big corporations.

19)   Organise urban gardens in your city, and inspire those around you to grow food.

20)   Go to live in the countryside and strive for self-sufficiency.

21)   Make food packages instead of buying take-away food.

22)    Get involved in foraging activities with your school, neighbours, community, etc.

23)    Avoid sugar! It harms your body and mind.

24)   Take good care of your health. The healthier you are, the more you can do to improve the world.

25)   Get to know your neighbours. Capitalism promotes individualism and loneliness. If you get together with those around you, you will all become stronger.

26)   Be in control of your own life. Don’t let yourself be ruled by trends, fashions, and the mainstream opinions and ways of living.

27)   Take time to truly follow your own path. Your future belongs to you, don’t allow yourself to be put into a box.

28)   Be together with other people about your difficulties, and theirs. If you share your problems, they become smaller.

29)   Promote togetherness in your neighbourhood, community, village, city, etc.

30)   Disconnect from internet. Connect with People and nature.

31)   Speak out when you see something wrong.

32)   Get involved in other people’s lives.Your brothers and sisters have for sure found some ways to fight capitalism, acknowledge and respect them for it.

33)   Refuse to accept stereotypes.

34)   Free yourself from what is expected from you!

35)   Avoid spending money.

36)   Dumpster dive and talk about dumpster diving.

37)   Buy local products.

38)   Buy second-hand clothes.

39)   Buy things of a good quality that will last longer.

40)   Buy fair trade products.

41)   Avoid buying NEW electronics.

42)   Don’t follow fast fashion.

43)   Avoid products that exploit people and nature (coffee, chocolate, etc.)

44)   Don’t follow trends that disappear fast.

45)   Avoid gender targeted products.

46)   In case you have a baby: Avoid disposable diapers and wet towels.

47)   In case you have a baby: Buy second hand clothes, stroller, car seat, etc.

48)   In case you have a baby: Avoid baby targeted products.

49)   In case you have a baby: Re-sell or gift your used baby things.

50)   In case you have a baby: Avoid food jars, plastic fruit pouches and all sorts of “baby food”.

51)   In case you have a baby: Avoid formula milk! Breastfeed!

52)   Support small businesses.

53)   Avoid buying things during date-specific consumerist periods (Valentine’s day, Christmas).

54)   Get as many things for FREE as possible.

55)   Give away as many things for FREE as possible.

56)   In case you are a woman: Use reusable menstrual products (moon cup, cloth pads, etc).

57)   Support collective owned companies.

58)   Don’t buy stuff made in sweat shops (clothes, electronics).

59)   Go for Open Source programmes, and all things that are made for people, not for profit.

60)   Get to know who owns which companies (for example, Unilever owns many small companies that look “innocent”).

61)   In case you are a woman: Get to know your body and your cycle works! Be aware of which contraceptive method you use!

62)   Pay CLOSE attention to which medicines you use, and why!

63)   Take good care of stuff so it can last longer

64)   Hitchhike

65)   Use car-sharing

66)   Bicycle more often.

67)   Use public transport.

68)   Buy an electric car.

69)   Fuel your car from state-owned oil companies.

70)   Walk more.

71)   Avoid travelling by plane and if you do so, choose a responsible company.

72)   Avoid plastic of all sorts.

73)   Boycott big corporations (Nestle, Coca Cola, Pantene, Starbucks, etc.)

74)   Avoid disposable products.

75)   Avoid all sorts of useless packaging.

76)   Actively protest war and tell your family and friends about the ugly business behind it.

77)   Actively protest companies that dig oil (for example, by trying to stop the ships from leaving the harbour) – or simply tell people about it!

78)   Actively protest companies that mine and transport coal, uranium, nuclear waste, or other harmful materials (for example, by trying to block the trains that transport it) – or simply tell people about it!

79)   Actively protest heavy machinery from entering the forest to cut it – or simply tell people about it!

80)   Avoid buying stuff that travels too much before arriving to you.

81)   Never buy plastic water bottles, and other one-time use products.

82)   Protect the public sectors by using and nourishing them (hospitals, schools, state owned companies)

83)   Talk with restaurants and supermarkets in your area about how to reduce food waste.

84)   Form collectives (in your community, work place, block buildings, etc). It is by far one of the most efficient ways to fight capitalism. Collectivism is the biggest threat to their success.

85)   Share economy (in your family, work place, village, block buildings, etc).

86)   Share house and your private facilities.

87)    Buy food in big quantities together with your friends, neighbours, family, etc.

88)   Share kitchen utensils with your neighbours

89)   Share electronics with your neighbours

90)   Talk about using renewable energy in your working place

91)   Don’t settle for jobs that don’t respect your rights

92)   Don’t be afraid to lose a job that pays you a small salary. Ask support from those around you in case you find yourself in this situation, and want to quit your job

93)   Be active in your working place, and get fully involved in what you do, and why you do it

94)   Speak out for workers’ rights!

95)   In case you are a woman: refuse to receive a lower salary than a man! (with the same skills)

96)   In case you are an immigrant: refuse to receive a lower salary than a local! (with the same skills)

97)   Join, or create, a workers’ union.

98)   Watch documentaries, read articles! Get informed! Be intellectually active!

99)   Share this article and give ideas to your friends of the many ways to fight capitalism!

And if you’re contemplating what ‘brave new world’ we should create in place of capitalism, just know that I am too.